Experiment with habits by team odd angle.

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 How it feels to transform ones habits?

 When a habit starts becoming, seldom we think about its result.But when it comes to dropping a habit it takes every ounce of effort.

We asked our team members to write about their experiences with transforming the habits they disliked about themselves here are some of their words .

Hemant tells,

I had a bad habit of blaming others for my mistakes, when things used go wrong, incident used to occur, I look out for somebody or something else to blame for my problems then I started taking  five steps to abandon blaming others.

1. Recognize when you are blaming others, Awareness is always the first step. 

2.Self blaming is good to take ownership than to blame others. 

3. Be empathetic,not judgmental. 

4. Own your part, you are responsible for everything that happens to you, stick to 50%-50%rule 

5. Don't let the problem make you blind.


 





Khushi Soni says,

Here is my experience in this context.

I had a habit of comparing myself with others. I often used to get unconscious about my complexion, my looks, and even my dressing sense. I always wanted to do things like others because I used to think it's kinda cool.

But there comes a point when it started getting toxic. Then I decided to stop comparing myself because everyone has different persona. I started reading self-love quoted and TED talks have really aided me. After some days of questioning my inner self, I came out as more self-loving human. And I learned that "admiring someone's beauty without questioning yours" is the real COOL.




Jatin mathur tells, 

I have been working on leaving some bad habits of instant gratifications i.e. social media in my case

when i decided to control my social media usage I experienced a rapid increase in random thoughts in my mind, related to social media, different celebrities I am interested in.

whenever i tried to resist my self from going into Instagram,my mind always dropped a thought that my friends must have messaged me, especially those school friends with whom I enjoyed a lot but didn't get their message from last month.

Everytime i controlled myself it increased the intensity of force on my mind to surf on social media,but this condition remains for few days

Now i feel more calm and composed with the limited usage of social media.



Mayur Shrivastava , quotes 

Habits,The tiny, simple habits can shift one's life into a dream or a nightmare.

Today i would be sharing my own experience on some of the habits that i tried to boycott and adopt 

Being a victim of mild asperger nature and kind of introvert type character i used to hesitate in public, struggled in Socialization. I used to confine my world to me only and as I grew up with this nature ,It  got changed into the obstinate habit of procrastination and left me  in the mental prison of over thinking.


As the time passed these habits got their control over me and I became an easy target for social media and got addicted to idle scrolling and many more Consuetudes like many people.

I almost lost my creativity .I thought if this phone which has put me in this viscous place called social media this itself will take me out of this dilemma.

After some days I started searching about self improvement and during this journey I was introduced to  people like JIM KWIK, PRINCE EA, DANDPANI and many more by internet , and They  really changed my mindset and i started asking myself that 

'Why am i doing this?For what am i doing?' and is it gonna help me in future! 

"I got my answer"


I started practicing self mastery, meditation and my subconscious mind, was trying to be optimistic as much as I could ,

 what was the result of it? Did I become perfect? 

The answer is no, I  didn't become perfect, I didn't get full control over my mind.

The change was small, and that's what the life is all about, you don't get the things you want every time and it's really not a fantasy or a movie that you just caste a spell and get magical results. 

I am saying this because i still sometimes procrastinate, still overthink but the hustle, the struggle is always on.

because success doesn't makes you great,it is the struggle, the hustle behind it what makes you great



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