What makes grandparents so great ?
When a child lives with his/her grand parents, one can always notice that child behaving with more etiquettes as compared to a child who doesn't live with his/her grandparents. Right?
Our grandparents make us more connected to our roots, nature, culture, etc. They teach us so many good things without the help of pen and paper. They let us know between the right and wrong more politely than our parents will ever do and hence they undoubtedly are our best friend. Our grandparents play a huge part in making our upbringing better and we should never take them as granted.
Here are some(obviously there are unlimited but i have mentioned only few significant ones) advantages of having our grandparents with us:
• Elderly: A key link to a family:
When we see our parents respecting our grandparents, we automatically learn that how important it is to respect our elders. Our grandparents also lays efforts in order to make our bond with our parents even stronger. They grow the feeling of sympathy in us and hence act as a key link.
• Make our thinking style different:
When children live with their grandparents, they are more sympathetic, altruistic, considerate and generous. Because they are blessed with the teachings of their grandparents. On the other hand, children(not everyone, but some) who don't live with their grandparents are somehow egoistic, self- centred and only care about their own family and nothing else. Therefore, the thinking style differs.
• Filled with immense love to devote:
Our elderlies are filled with so much of love to give to us. There are times when we feel sad, depressed and anxious and at those times the only ones who really understand us without saying anything are our grandparents. They take our tension away with the love they give to us. Their love overpowers every bad thought that surrounds us. When we can't share things with our parents thinking they might not understand, we share them with our grandparents and as expected they understand them.
• Helpful in times of illness:
We all know that our grandparents are full of knowledge(not talking about the bookish-knowledge here obviously), the knowledge here I am talking about is the home-made remedies they suggest at times we got ill. When elderlies are there with us in our home, we don't need to look out for doctors for each and every small health-related problem. The remedies our grandparents provide us with are far better than any medicine in the world. They make every possible effort in making us healthier and fitter.
• Bind us with our culture:
When there are our grandparents with us, this is impossible that we are going to bed without listening to any tale by them. Correct? Our elderlies tell us stories related to our culture, sing folklore and spiritual songs to us and hence, bind us to our culture through them. They tell us stories not only to make us feel good and happy, but to let us know about our culture and cherish it. They introduce us with the festivals, why they are celebrated and teach us what we should learn from them. All in all they bind us with our tradition and culture regardless of wherever we go.
The above points state the importance of having our grandparents in our home which are uncountable. Grandparents give us love, teach us values, make us healthy and so many good things, but in return what should we do? We should respect them, love them as much as they love us, talk to them when they are alone, never take them for granted and realise their importance in our lives.
They give us love without expecting it in return, so it's our responsibility to take care of them and cherish their love. Therefore I am going to state some points that you should always keep in mind:
•Spend time with them as much as you can.
•Play games with them to make them feel buoyant.
•Always take every decision after consulting them, don't make them feel excluded because of their age.
• Don't ever shout at them!
• Celebrate their birthday, anniversary etc.
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Make your grandparents proud by expressing your love to them.
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